Why are you still fat? If you spend a whole five minutes online
you’ll be convinced that it’s because you just don’t have the drive to
lose weight. People assume that all fat people are undisciplined. There
are far too many assumptions that they just sit on their butts all day
eating garbage… that they don’t really care about their body the way
skinny people do.
BULL.
The truth is that lots of people who struggle with weight issues pay
close attention to their food. They exercise daily. They are diligent to
follow all the “rules” out there for how to lose weight. And the weight
just won’t budge… or if it does it often bounces right back.
So why are you still fat?
Honestly, I don’t know why YOU are still fat… why YOU are struggling
with weight issues. And that’s because NOBODY really knows. What works
for one person in the journey of weight loss fails for another. And
there are so many theories on the table about obesity that it generally
just adds fuel to the guilt fire for those who try and try and still
find themselves staring in the mirror while screaming, “Why are you
still fat?!”
Consider this post a landmark fin your personal journey. Some of
these you will have already considered, but maybe not all of them.
12 reasons why you are still fat:
1. Toxic Overload
One of the culprits to fat issues most people don’t look into is toxic chemicals. Yes,
toxic chemicals can make you fat and make it harder to lose weight.
Learn more about it here.
2. Emotional Trauma
Got issues? Emotional trauma could be contributing to your body holding on to fat. Consider this:
“When you had a trauma as a kid and
you’re 10 years old, your cells keep a cellular memory of that trauma,
and your body, it will activate certain genes that will activate FAT
programs if your cells feel like fat is the way to protect you from the
trauma.” - Jon Gabriel
Of course the phrase “emotional trauma” sounds pretty big and scary, but any emotional issues may be making your fat.
Learn more about it here.
3. The Wrong Diet
If you’re still following the low-fat, highly processed “diet” that
the marketing world tells us will help us lose weight then you may be
surprised to learn the truth about healthy weight loss in relationship
to the foods we eat. I don’t personally prescribe to any one diet. I
think there are valid aspects of all the popular lifestyle diets like
Paleo, WAPF, Vegetarian, etc. (You can read more about my thoughts on
that here). But the real key is REAL FOOD, and taking advantage of all
the macro-nutrients while eating a nutrient-dense diet. Want to learn
more? Two of my favorite books include
this one and
this one.
4. Hormonal Imbalance
Imbalanced hormones can wreak havoc on your overall health and add
extra poundage to your frame. The good news it that you can learn how to
balance your hormones naturally and it can help you lose weight. Read
more about it
here and
here.
5. Medication Side Effect
One of the side-effects of many medications is weight gain. Now, I’m
not suggesting you stop taking your medication. I’m not a doctor and you
should follow the advice of your trusted health care practitioner. But
it’s definitely something to consider if you are currently on meds.
Finding natural alternatives (if that works with your situation) can
help you lose weight and avoid other negative side effects.
6. Stress
We live in very stressful times, and unfortunately that stress can
take it’s toll. If you’re wondering why you are still fat you may want
to find some way to combat stress.
Learn more about it here and
here.
7. Inadequate Sleep
Too little sleep? That could be a major reason why you’re still fat. I
know that for me my body holds on to weight desperately when I’m not
getting adequate sleep (which makes losing baby weight tricky, ha!) If
you’re having trouble getting your zzzzz’s, consider reading
my favorite book on the subject.
8. Too Sedentary
While it’s true that lots of people who deal with weight gain are
moving a lot, there are still plenty of people who are suffering from
our sedentary lifestyles. Here are are great ways to get
addicted to exercise and the
benefits of moving.
9. Eating Too Much Food
Another major culprit in our world of easy fast food is a simple calories in, calories out problem. I personally
don’t count calories,
but I am also very careful about eating only real food and listening to
my body. If you are still eating a Standard American Diet, consider
making the switch to a real foods diet. It’s just as delicious and way more satisfying.
10. Eating Too Little Food
On the other side of the scale (pun intended) are the folks who are
eating too little. Guess what? That can make your body hold on the fat
even more! I’ve seen so many dedicated people working hard at the gym
and then restricting their diet to 1200 calories. Your body will think
you’re starving and hold onto the weight. Don’t do it! And while some
people may have found that they do lose weight on such a restrictive
diet, the long term affects are not worth it (not to mention you usually
gain the weight back.) Eat enough to support movement.
11. Metabolic Issues
We often think of our metabolism as some sort of magic fairy that
helps us lose weight if it’s “fast” and keep it on if it’s “slow.” But
the truth is that our metabolism determines so much more. If you are
still fat despite lots of efforts and also have trouble sleeping,
concentrating, or feeling energized you should seriously consider
checking out your metabolic health.
This is my absolute favorite book on the matter.
12. Hidden or Underlying Health Issues
Of course, the reason why you are still fat may be even more hidden
than this list can provide. Again, I’d highly recommend meeting with a
trusted healthcare professional, getting some testing done, and seeing
if you have something else that needs addressing. In this case your
weight gain could be a tremendous blessing in helping you dig a littler
deeper and improve your overall health.
BONUS Reason Why You’re Still Fat: You Had (or are having) a Baby
I almost feel ridiculous for adding this bonus point to the list, but
a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do. I see so many woman struggle
with their body after giving birth (*raises hand*)… guess what? YOU GREW
A PERSON!? It took you nine months to add the weight and it may take
you nine months (or longer if you’re dealing with any of the other above
issues) to lose it. Enjoy your beautiful and capable body. Respect it
for the miracle of giving birth. You are beautiful, trust me.
So… Why you’re still fat?
As you can see there are lots of reasons why you might be still fat
despite all your efforts. Don’t let society fool you into thinking it
has anything to do with your inability to be disciplined. A little self
love goes a long way toward a healthy journey of weight loss. Don’t let
extra pounds keep you from the happy life you deserve. But if you
looking for healthy ways to slim down you may want to look as some of
the possible reasons above as to why you’re still fat.
Repeat after me: You are a worthwhile, inspiring, capable, intelligent, and
beautiful person.
What should the rest of us do about it?
Be kind.
Be respectful. Show some empathy. Stop assuming that just because
something worked for you that it’s THE answer for someone else. Stop
judging people based on their appearance. Stop obsessing over the number
on the scale and start living life with more love and compassion.
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